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| GS Ramesh |
Becoming Senior Citizen and also becoming Grand
Father is a very nostalgic feeling. My Grand Son was in Goa and obviously I
went to Goa and I always felt that I am strong enough to hold my feeling, but
somewhere God has created such bondage that my Grand Son pulled me to Goa and
the trip was very enriching and a new learning of life.
I also had an opportunity to meet one of my old
friend whom I met after 40 years. He happens to be the IG of Police. When I met
him we discussed about our past and some of the learning I had with my Father
was narrated by him which made me very emotional. He said that my Father was
not only Father for Ramesh and my Brother and he was Father to all and he was
the man who believed in forgiving.
Honestly, I learnt this from my Father and during my
career many times my Colleagues used to say that how come you forgive a person,
who has back stabbed you. I always used to reply to them that this is Law of
Karma, in the past there might have been certain conflict in relationship which
has resultant into the present behavior by him. You may get angry and shout but
never harm someone. The Philosophy taught to me by my Father was as a HR person
the first Thumb rule you should have is never take a job of anyone because if
you dismiss anyone behind him 4 people are there i.e. his Family and his
Parents. Virtually you are kicking on so many people stomach, so if you are
true HR try to rehabilitate him and change him.
Today most of the Industries is going through the
issues wherein we try to exhibit our power to satisfy our ego and never try to
look at the issue in a positive manner. It has to be accepted the fact that
people are manipulating and trying to take advantage, but we should not get
influenced by their behavior or so to say even understanding he is trying to
manipulate, counsel him then leave him like that because God only decides the
future of the people and it is their destiny what they bring for themselves.
May be all this are philosophical but in reality it
happens many times. Manager feels depressed and frustrated by the behavior of
others and when they feel they are helpless they take the course of Newton
Third Law, “Action with Reaction”. If we avoid to have such reactions and work
out a strategy to make other person realize by adopting positive discipline
approach, most of the IR issues in the Industry can be avoided and the Manager
of today can remain young even at the age of 60. They have to take the course
are :
i.
To be a good
Listener
ii.
To be more
Proactive
iii.
To be a good
emphasizer
iv.
Then To be a
good solution provider
Hence Understand
Yourself and Understand Others, to make your life More Peaceful and Beautiful.
